Life Coaching for Women Seeking Healthier and Happier Long-Term Relationships
Rosemary Mupambwa is an award-winning life coach, who is based in British Columbia, Canada. Rosemary is the founder of Rose’s Life Coaching practice as well as the creator of Dating after a Long Dry Spell program. A transformative dating tool that has helped thousands of singles become unstuck in the pursuit of love and happiness, as well as permanently break free from self-limiting beliefs and ideologies. My program also aims to remove unconscious dating and self-sabotaging relationships and life patterns with the end goal being to help and empower singles in the dating world to finally find and attract their soulmate.
My life was completely turned on its head in the year 2000 where I sadly lost my first husband. I became a widow and a single mother to our three children in the blink of an eye.
I worked hard as a woman in the corporate space and I was even dominating the corporate environment. However, I quickly learned that dominating and focusing on my work life would not help me feel whole. In fact it was quite the opposite. It hindered my ability to be able to get back on my feet and find love once again. At times I felt as if I had my life figured out, I met someone who felt like the man of my dreams but unfortunately this led to me experiencing a major heartbreak that put me further back than I had ever been.
When this happened I was left deeply frustrated at the world around me and found myself sad that love had escaped me once again. This was especially difficult for me as I was in a lonely space and found myself without companionship. At this point in my life I was approaching my late 50’s. I think for anyone this would be a challenging time, to be so experienced in life yet still unable to find something that feels so basic.
This almost made me give up on love, and can you blame me?
I knew what I wanted and more importantly what I deserved!
I felt as though I could handle the weight of love’s disappointments alone and told myself that through hard will and determination I could deal with it the best way I know how!
I was in the same position you are today, admittedly everyone’s circumstances are different but at the root of it all the problems are the same. I felt the frustration of love’s elusive habits growing inside me combined with the growing tiredness of the vicious cycles of heartbreaks, I began to feel as though I was not good enough, not worthy of being loved by another person, and ultimately I began telling myself I was not deserving of love’s embrace.
I went through an authentic life transformation journey that threw several curveballs at me, this was unknown to me at the time but an inevitable part of the journey. It was not until I began to look towards myself and face some deep and uncomfortable truths that I finally began to blossom and become a rose!
How did I begin to heal and grow?
I began my journey of self discovery which helped me and allowed me to come out a stronger and more resilient woman. I found that I could turn my struggles into a life lesson, I worked with expert life coaches and Reiki masters which allowed me to carefully craft what I now call my “Dating After A Long Dry Spell” course. I quickly realized that in order to find the love I KNEW i deserved, I first had to battle internally to get a better understanding of who I am.
One day I finally found the courage to attend a retreat.
This gave me some time away where I could be guided and led to help me find the answers that I had been looking for. I began my personal healing journey of facing my pain and my past, being able to forgive the past (not forget) and allowing that to help me to EMBRACE MY FUTURE.
I took time to consult with Reiki masters who finally allowed me to unlock my heart blocks and allow my heart to open up, allowing me to be irresistible to the man of my dreams.
This is why at the Golden age of 60 years old, I stand before you a married, happy and grateful woman. I found HIM and KEEP him to this day. If I can do it, there is NO DOUBT you can do it too. IF YOU PUT THE WORK IN.
Now my motto is “Healing is a Choice”, I had to find that out the hard way and alone. YOU can choose to remain suffering from YOUR past or YOU can make an informed choice to change the trajectory of your life. YOU can choose to work with me to help you develop the key skills I fought so hard to develop alone.
For 19 years of my life I was left waiting and hoping that the pain would one day evaporate and leave me. I was blind to the possibility of taking action and choosing to do something about my situation. I grew exhausted from living in what felt like an infinite loop of pain and disappointments.
Today I have made myself one of the very few coaches that teach what I have personally practiced. Not everything I teach comes from theory, I believe in the PRACTICAL.
Ready to transform your love life? Here’s how to book a session and take the first step towards your dream relationship:
After I experienced the loss of my husband as well a string of other losses in my life. I made the decision to move to Canada to start my life over again. I began facing a lot of challenges adapting to a new culture. I dealt with many feelings, I was lonely in a new land and without my friends, family and children boredom soon began to creep in. For six long years I was separated from my children before we were finally reunited in Canada.
I was dominating the corporate landscape, I worked hard to send myself to university while working 3 jobs to support my newly reunited family and myself. This helped me to build myself up and grow my resilience and make me into the strong woman I am today. Life is tough, but when you have goals to fulfil and you remain determined and focused, nothing can stop you from blossoming into the beautiful rose I know you can be.
When it was time for me to change, I went through a transformative process where I had to be brutally honest with myself from the inside out. I began digging at the root of the problem. This is where I learnt and began to practice the FOCUS method.
The FOCUS method is a 5 step process which involves:
When it was time for me to change, I went through a transformative process where I had to be brutally honest with myself from the inside out. I began digging at the root of the problem. This is where I learnt and began to practice the FOCUS method. The FOCUS method is a 5 step process which involves:
Unlike many other coaches who only have book knowledge, I practice what I teach. The same program I give my clients is the very one I designed to find the love of my life. I have come full circle and understand all the challenges faced by those seeking a healthy, long-term relationship. This is why I became a coach: to help other women who are in the same predicament I once was, so they can avoid the anxiety and frustrations that come with dating. My approach ensures that you no longer waste your valuable time on mystery dating and guesswork.
It is easy to find a man, but keeping him and building a healthy, long-term relationship is the biggest challenge. The first step is to go through a self-discovery journey. This means understanding who you are and how you got to where you are, and being radically honest with yourself.
Changing your mindset and getting in touch with yourself is crucial. Reinventing and rebranding yourself is key to this self-discovery journey. Let go of past issues and utilize what you’ve learned to change your self-sabotaging behavior.
Finally, create a plan to find love again with the useful and practical strategies I used to find my man.
In our sessions, you will learn the essential steps to FIND HIM and ATTRACT HIM. These are not just generic tips but proven strategies honed through my own experiences. Here’s a glimpse of what you can expect:
“You can find love again –even if have been struggling for years. Love is possible”
“After working with Rose on the Dating After a Long Dry Spell I learnt a lot about my insecurities and once I over came that, Gerry showed up in my in my life 3 months after finding the program.”
Tessa and Gerry
I met Rosemary after I had been meeting men that were always putting me down. I felt I was not good enough to find love again and and almost given up. But Rosemary promised me that if I put work into the DAALDS program it would help me. I did I discovered that I had so many insecurities and I needed validation in everything in my life including relationships. It also helped me to discover how to dismantle my self-limiting beliefs that had cripple me for so long.
Now am happily married to the love of my live.
Thanks Rose.
Millie and Titus
Marcy says, “I had given up onlove after I lost my husband to cancer, but 15 year later I thought of changing my life. I tired of being alone all my children had left and was nw an empty nester.
The 12 Essential shifts in DATING AFTER A LONG DRY SPELL and the Reiki sessions helped me to open up to love again. I found love at 65 and Devine is 72. We are happy together.
Thanks Rose.
Marcy and Devine
Going through the Dating After a Long Dry Spell Program with Rosemary helped me to deal with my complicated grief. I had so much anger and pain after losing my husband that I did not know how to deal with it. Rosemary’s program helped me to go to the root of the grief as to why I could not handle it. I soon found out I needed to forgive lots of people that had hurt me after my hubby passed away. Rosemary took me step by step through the process and I met Maz 2 months after the program, its that effective guys. I recommend this to anyone who is going through grief…. to heal using this program.
Thanks Rose
Mazartz and Josh
Love After Loss
I completed the program and a month later I met Mark at this same beach where he proposed to me 6 months later. Now we are planning our wedding and Rose and Perry are invited to our wedding. I am so happy I decided to take the time to do it. I needed to do something bout my love life.
Thanks Rose.
Racheal and Mark.
I met Rosemary when I was at my rock bottom. I thought I was he ugliest women in the world, because my ex had left me for my best friend. He told me that he had done me a favour to go out with me and regretted having wasted his time with me.
Rosemary told me that this too was going to change.
Maxist and Tinotenda
After the self-discovery modules I discovered I am a beautiful and powerful woman and I could find any man I wanted. This time I was able to CHOOSE Max among all the men that I dated and now I am Mrs Longershed.
Thanks Rosemary you are amazing
Life coaching is a collaborative process where a coach helps clients identify their goals, overcome obstacles, and develop strategies to achieve personal and professional growth. Unlike therapy, which often focuses on healing past wounds, life coaching is future-focused and action-oriented.
Anyone looking to make positive changes in their life can benefit from life coaching. This includes individuals seeking to improve their careers, relationships, health, or overall well-being. Life coaching is also beneficial for those who feel stuck, lack direction, or want to achieve specific goals and need support and accountability.
In a life coaching session, you can expect a structured yet flexible conversation focused on your goals and challenges. The coach will ask insightful questions, provide feedback, and help you create an action plan. Sessions often involve setting goals, identifying obstacles, and developing strategies to overcome them, along with regular check-ins to monitor progress.
While both life coaching and therapy aim to help individuals improve their lives, they differ in focus and methodology. Therapy often addresses emotional and psychological issues, delving into past experiences to heal and understand current behaviors. Life coaching, on the other hand, focuses on setting and achieving goals, personal development, and creating actionable plans for the future. Life coaches typically do not treat mental health disorders.
To get started with life coaching, schedule an initial consultation with a certified life coach. During this session, you’ll discuss your goals, challenges, and what you hope to achieve through coaching. The coach will explain their process and how they can support you. From there, you can decide on a coaching package that fits your needs and begin your journey towards personal and professional growth.
Life coaching is a collaborative process where a coach helps clients identify their goals, overcome obstacles, and develop strategies to achieve personal and professional growth. Unlike therapy, which often focuses on healing past wounds, life coaching is future-focused and action-oriented.
Anyone looking to make positive changes in their life can benefit from life coaching. This includes individuals seeking to improve their careers, relationships, health, or overall well-being. Life coaching is also beneficial for those who feel stuck, lack direction, or want to achieve specific goals and need support and accountability.
In a life coaching session, you can expect a structured yet flexible conversation focused on your goals and challenges. The coach will ask insightful questions, provide feedback, and help you create an action plan. Sessions often involve setting goals, identifying obstacles, and developing strategies to overcome them, along with regular check-ins to monitor progress.
While both life coaching and therapy aim to help individuals improve their lives, they differ in focus and methodology. Therapy often addresses emotional and psychological issues, delving into past experiences to heal and understand current behaviors. Life coaching, on the other hand, focuses on setting and achieving goals, personal development, and creating actionable plans for the future. Life coaches typically do not treat mental health disorders.
To get started with life coaching, schedule an initial consultation with a certified life coach. During this session, you’ll discuss your goals, challenges, and what you hope to achieve through coaching. The coach will explain their process and how they can support you. From there, you can decide on a coaching package that fits your needs and begin your journey towards personal and professional growth.