Life is never the same after going through loss of a spouse, a relationship breakup or a divorce.
Holding onto the pain will not change anything it will create more problems for you and those around you.
Why don't you take the bold step to start the HEALING process. I know its not easy to let go of pain and forgive those that hurt you. Let go of that garbage and see your life transforming into this bliss. HEALING is the first step to a better and happier life!!
What is holding you back, is the same thing that is HURTING you.
Is it FEAR that keeps creeping in your mind? Is it those negative thoughts that keep telling you its not possible to HEAL? What is your self-talk about? Do you tell yourself, "What's The Use?"
Take a mirror and ask yourself whether you love the person you are seeing?
Do you like the way you feel because of all the garbage that you keep holding onto?
Look at your inner-self? What do you see? How was your childhood like? The way you were brought up also affects the way you will live your life in the world today.
HEAL the childhood in you and see the world releasing peace into your life.